My Definition of Love For Her!!!

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave. A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master…”  ―Elizabeth Gilbert

“Sometimes it’s a form of love just to talk to somebody that you have nothing in common with and still be fascinated by their presence.” ―David Byrne

These are the few lines that drew my attention in the quest for love… Let’s see where and how things unfolds…..

What is love? How will I know that I’m in love, and when will I know that she’s the one?

These were all questions I wondered as a guy of 26yrs who has neither been into a relationship before nor even had a crush!! Who always carried a bag full of books and ideas to implement and goals tho achieve…

Lately I fantasized about true love during my final year of university education, I always envisioned getting married young, busting out one or two children and living in a sprawling home as a fat and happy stay-at-home father who juggled the job of writing bestseller.

But today I’ve learned that you can’t plan and you most certainly can’t define love…

Since I sometimes resort back to wondering, exactly what is love?, I thought I’d share what I’ve learned so far…

Love is…

Watching her sit on the chair in the midst of a class and drawing pictures, or making designs on the back of the notebook….

Watching her taking pictures of small and little things whenever she come across either any simple yet amazing thing or any very stupid and funny thing…

Watching her reading e books in the classroom, her eyes slowly used to get red and wet.. and sometimes she reacts with a simple, sweet and beautiful smile depending upon the material she is reading..

Watching her eating street food at times, and the veg rolls with silver wrapping… during the lunch break… Appreciating her making new words such as the full form of “etc- Even beyond Thinking Capacity” and so on..

Watching her talking with her friends either on phone or through Whatsapp…
Looking at her different moods, during the sessions, during the tests, whole night studies, her red swollen eyes, often fighting with her long, thick and dark black hair, her love for nature, her sense of emotions, and pragmatic approach,.

Her craze for dance, her passion for listening to music of various kinds, her sense of belongingness to her family, her respect for family values & culture is what I just cannot forget till I die;…

Finally, the best part of her being simple, unconventional when it comes to dressing style and all, more interest and live for books than jeweleries, her love for chocolates, her passion for amazing writing, her soul is so pure that it can really heal the pains of others, optimistic with full of fighting spirit, she believe is liberty and freedom, she always believe in the power of woman and love…

I think this is what live is and I only want to stay near to her, I want to enjoy your happiness to make it double and want to share your sadness tho reduce it by half…. anything but I cannot live without her…

But today I am far away from her, not heard your voice for long, only for your sake so that she can clear her mind and take her time… please be positive..

Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.”  ―Anaïs Nin

This is what inspired my in the last few months so that I maintain the patience, sanity… Moreover, whenever I read about this…I really get even more encouragement…

Thank you


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