Life is great when it surprises you every time, it becomes even more interesting when we start living in moments.. because then we actually value our time. We start investing time on us so as to improve ourselves continuously.. We learn so much about capitalism, socialism, feminism , humanism and many other “isms” but what life taught me is to “Avoid superlatives, just being fair and reasonable life can be simple and prosperous “
In this world, anything you say or write, the response would be with a kind of provocation..or people may simply judge you, but stay calm because we know ourselves better than anyone else.. We should not lose our own identity in this rat race.. Ask people as to what is this new style of conversation.. because this might be a different expression of love..
Trust your love, your first love!! Often I have heard that “first love is never meant to be”. No matter how bad it hurts but you got to accept it!! People may say that “it is probably for the best”.. Well I dare to challenge it because losing your love cannot be the best choice and “first love” excuse me !! How many times we fall in romantic love ?? I believe that we fall in love only once in our life time .. rest is only for convenience because its really difficult to live all your life with an unrequited love.
With time the insecurity grows and we tend to think about our own desires too and in this process we move on !!! This is what my understanding has been.. Hence, I prepared my mind to live all my life with my unrequited love.. It doesn’t make be embarrass at all to accept this fact because I know honesty will prevail and surpass all this distances some day !!!
If you are somebody’s first love then don’t lose that !! It is often said that “Every person who is loved by their first love are actually unlucky because they miss one of the beautiful feelings of life”. All these things constantly hit my mind and body so much so that things have become very evident through all my actions and performances; be it the academics, policing or in the Sangam meet( a sports meet). But no matter what, unrequited love is the only kind of love that lasts..
It is true that it hurts to watch them slowly distance themselves, to slowly fade away..to become strangers with memories.. but have faith in your honesty, in your love.. In this context few lines that I would like to share here …
A wish may take a life time
to make its own impact.
so don’t lose hope
I may live long enough for
the love to become a fact !
Admitted, that you will not
neglect to respond to my requests,
but I may turn to dust before you
hear and react !!
Life’s deadlock who can break
other than death, because even a candle burns
night till dawn in its every
hue and aspects!!!
It is true that when flesh is all burnt, heart must have burnt as well, I will accept this pain because it is nothing when I compare it with a situation where my love would be in search for my heart someday, in the ashes and that would be an exercise in frustration.. which I cannot allow.. Hence, I will perish silently with time waiting for my love to respond !!
P.S. A note while moving traveling from Mussoorie to Hyderabad … Hectic schedule so an honest apology for being late in writing the post about the wonderful nominations I got from two wonderful blogger friends of mine !!